Charlie Mackesy · 2025 · #1 New York Times bestseller
Always Remember
The boy, the mole, the fox, the horse — and the storm.
“Are you frightened?”
“Yes.”
“So are we. Come and stand here.”
A distillation of the book's register, not a transcription.
Four of them. One storm.
What it is
A sequel with weather in it.
Six years after The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse, the same four are back and something has changed: there is a storm. It arrives as literal weather and it is obviously grief, fear, illness, the year that went wrong — Mackesy never says which, on purpose.
128 unnumbered pages of ink and watercolour, short exchanges, handwritten lines. No chapters, no argument, no takeaway at the end. The whole book is four characters staying in bad weather together, and one instruction in the title.
Reading time
20 minutes
And then again, differently, on a worse day.
Advice given
Almost none
Nobody in it fixes anything for anybody.
The instruction
Remember
That you were loved before the weather turned.
The interactive
Ask the four of them.
Pick what is actually on your mind, then go round them one at a time. They answer in the order they always do, and the horse goes last.
What's the worry?
Pick a worry first.
The cast
Four positions on one bad day.
None of them is a personality type and none is meant to be you. They are four things a person needs available, and most of us have two of them and are missing the rest.
The boy
Asks the question everyone else is thinking and nobody will say out loud. He is the one who admits to being frightened first, which is what makes it possible for the others to.
The mole
Wants cake, says the warm thing, is not embarrassed about either. He is the argument that a small ordinary comfort counts as real help rather than as avoidance.
The fox
Says almost nothing. He was rescued once and has stayed since, and the book treats that as a complete contribution — showing up is not a lesser form of helping.
The horse
Says the line you were waiting for and then stops talking. He is the one who has been through weather before, which is the only authority anybody in this book has.
Three things it does
One
It refuses to explain the storm.
No cause, no lesson, no silver lining offered. The weather is not a test anyone is passing or failing, which is why the book survives being read by someone in the middle of something genuinely bad.
Two
It puts love in the past tense on purpose.
Always remember — not always feel. On the days you cannot feel it, the book asks only that you recall it as a fact. That is a much lower bar and it is the one that holds.
Three
It makes staying the heroic act.
Nobody solves the storm. They stand in it next to each other and keep walking, and Mackesy draws that as the whole of what can be done — because for the reader in the storm, it usually is.
One more thing worth knowing: much of the original artwork was lost when Mackesy's iPad was stolen from his car, and he drew it again. There is a version of this book's own argument in that.
Reader marginalia
Community insights
"The storm is not a punishment and it is not a test. It is weather, and you are in it with other people."
"Being loved is not a feeling you generate. It is a fact you are allowed to remember when you cannot feel anything."
"The bravest thing is still asking for help — and it stays the bravest thing every single time."
"Small comforts are not a distraction from grief. Cake, in this book, is a theology."
Small moves
Action steps
Write your four names
Who is your boy, mole, fox and horse — the honest one, the warm one, the quiet one, the steady one? Write the four names down. Most people find one of the roles is unfilled, and that is useful to know.
Make a storm list
Before the next bad week, write the three things that reliably help you — a person, a place, a small comfort. In the storm you will not be able to think of them.
Keep one line where you can see it
A single sentence someone said to you that you would want back on a bad day. On the fridge, in your wallet, on the lock screen. This is the whole mechanism of the title.
Decide what you'll say when asked
Practise one honest answer to "how are you" that isn't fine. Mackesy's characters are unusually straightforward, and it turns out to be a skill rather than a personality.
Name the person you'd sit with
Not the person who would fix it — the one you'd want in the room saying nothing. Then tell them that is what they are to you.
Ask for one small thing this week
A lift, an hour, a favour you could technically manage alone. The book's most repeated claim is that asking is brave, and it only stays true if you practise on small things.
Stay without fixing
When someone tells you something hard, resist the solution for a full minute. Presence is what people remember afterwards; the advice is almost never recalled.
Take the ordinary good thing seriously
The tea, the walk, the cake, the sitting down. Mackesy plays these for warmth but means them — small comforts are load-bearing, not a distraction.
Say the affectionate thing out loud
Once a day, tell someone plainly what they are to you. The book is built almost entirely out of sentences most people think and never say.
Walk while it's still raining
One small step on the bad day, without waiting for the weather to change. Hope in this book is a movement, not a forecast.
“The storm does not ask whether you are ready. Being loved is what you take into it.”
Charlie Mackesy
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Charlie Mackesy's sequel to The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse — the four friends caught in a storm, told in short conversations, handwritten lines and ink drawings, about being frightened and being loved at the same time.
What are the key takeaways from Always Remember?
Readers on HourLife most often highlight ideas such as: “The storm is not a punishment and it is not a test. It is weather, and you are in it with other people.” “Being loved is not a feeling you generate. It is a fact you are allowed to remember when you cannot feel anything.” “The bravest thing is still asking for help — and it stays the bravest thing every single time.”
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Write your four names — Who is your boy, mole, fox and horse — the honest one, the warm one, the quiet one, the steady one? Write the four names down. Most people find one of the roles is unfilled, and that is useful to know.
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