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Gregg D. Jacobs1998Foreword by Herbert Benson

Say Good Night to Insomnia

The Six-Week, Drug-Free Program Developed at Harvard Medical School

Insomnia that lasts is mostly learned. This programme sets out to teach the body to sleep again, with habits and thoughts instead of pills.

  • 6weeks in the programme
  • 0sleeping pills in the programme itself
  • CBT-Ithe method, now a first-line treatment
  • 2009revised edition of the 1998 original
Log your week of sleep
An example night on a 24-hour dial: in bed from 10.30 pm to 7 am, asleep in three broken stretches. MIDNIGHT 6 AM NOON 6 PM In bed 8 h 30 Asleep 5 h 40
HourLife's drawing of an example night, not a figure from the book.

The core idea

Sleep is not something you can force. It is something you can relearn.

Gregg D. Jacobs is an insomnia specialist and sleep researcher who developed this programme at Harvard Medical School, and Herbert Benson, known for the relaxation response, wrote the foreword. The book argues that most long-lasting insomnia is learned: a few bad nights leave behind habits and worried thoughts that keep poor sleep going long after the first cause has passed, so it can be unlearned without sleeping pills. Its six-week programme is a form of cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia, now usually called CBT-I. It asks readers to keep a sleep diary, cut time in bed back towards the time they actually sleep, keep the bed for sleep, swap negative thoughts about sleep for more accurate ones, practise the relaxation response, and adjust light, exercise, caffeine and alcohol. It also explains how people taking sleeping pills can come off them slowly, with their doctor's help. A revised edition followed in 2009.

The method has a name now: cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia, or CBT-I. Medical bodies such as the American College of Physicians recommend it as the first treatment for chronic insomnia in adults, ahead of sleeping pills. On that central point the book and mainstream medicine agree.

It is not a quick fix. The programme works as a whole, over weeks, and the first week or two of a shorter sleep window can leave you more tired before nights improve. Some of the lifestyle advice rests on weaker evidence than the core steps, and sleep hygiene on its own rarely fixes long-standing insomnia.

  1. Behaviour

    Retrain the schedule

    A fixed rise time, less time lying awake, and a bed kept for sleep. These steps change the conditions that keep insomnia going.

  2. Thoughts

    Answer the 3 a.m. voice

    Catch the anxious predictions about sleep and tomorrow, and replace them with calmer, more accurate ones.

  3. Body

    Lower the arousal

    A daily relaxation practice, plus light, exercise, caffeine, alcohol and bedroom temperature, all pointed at the body's own rhythm.

Interactive · the sleep diary

Log a week. Find your sleep window.

Each morning, fill in last night. Rough estimates are fine; don't watch the clock to get them. After three nights you'll see your sleep efficiency (time asleep divided by time in bed) and a suggested window for next week.

Not a substitute for professional care. This is a self-help tool, not a diagnosis or treatment plan. If you snore loudly, gasp or stop breathing in your sleep, see a doctor: it can be sleep apnoea.

Don't shorten your time in bed without medical advice if you have epilepsy, bipolar disorder or a parasomnia, are pregnant, or drive or operate machinery for work. A shorter window makes you sleepier at first, so take extra care on the road.

1Night
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2Night
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3Night
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4Night
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5Night
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6Night
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7Night
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“Awake in the night” includes lying awake before you got up. Your diary stays in this browser.

Your week

Sleep efficiency

Nights logged0
Average in bed–
Average asleep–
Time asleep ÷ time in bed–

Log at least three nights to see a suggested window.

Pick one you can keep every day, weekends too. It starts at your usual get-up time.

HourLife's calculator, built on the method the book teaches. The 85% mark, the 15-minute steps and the 5-hour floor are common CBT-I rules of thumb, not figures quoted from the book. Where your clinician advises differently, follow them.

Concept anatomy

How a few bad nights become a habit, and where the programme cuts in.

HourLife's sketch of the loop the book describes. Insomnia feeds itself: each link makes the next more likely. Each part of the programme breaks one link.

A loop: a few bad nights lead to worry about sleep, which leads to trying hard and lying tense, which leads to hours awake in bed, which leads to more bad nights. Levers 1 to 4 sit on the links; lever 5, the body clock, sits in the middle. 3 4 1 2 A few bad nights Worry about sleep Trying hard, lying tense Hours awake in bed 5 BODY CLOCK
HourLife's diagram of conditioned insomnia, after the book.
  1. Sleep schedulingFewer hours lying awake. Time in bed shrinks towards the time you sleep, then grows as sleep fills it.
  2. Stimulus controlThe bed stops being a cue for waking. Bed is for sleep, and you get up when you are wide awake.
  3. Changing sleep thoughtsThe worry loses its grip. Catastrophic thoughts about tomorrow get a calmer, more accurate answer.
  4. The relaxation responseLess effort and tension. A daily practice lowers the arousal that keeps you alert in bed.
  5. Lifestyle and the body clockUnderneath it all. Light, exercise, caffeine, alcohol and a cool room support the body's own rhythm.

The 3 a.m. swap

Changing sleep thoughts is the part of the programme people skip. It works by answering the night-time thought with the one you would believe in daylight. Three examples, in HourLife's words:

  • At 3 a.m.

    If I don't sleep now, tomorrow is ruined.

    In daylight

    I've had short nights before and got through the next day. One night doesn't decide the week.

  • At 3 a.m.

    I'll never get to sleep tonight.

    In daylight

    If I'm wide awake, I can get up, read something dull in dim light, and come back when I'm sleepy.

  • At 3 a.m.

    Everyone else sleeps eight hours. Something is wrong with me.

    In daylight

    Sleep need varies from person to person, and waking briefly in the night is normal.

Write your own two on a card and keep it by the bed. If worry or low mood is with you most of the day as well as at night, talk to a GP or therapist.

Community insights

Nine ideas, one for each hour of the night.

11 pmHourLife takeaway

Insomnia that lasts is usually learned, which means it can be unlearned.

A stressful stretch brings a few bad nights. The ways we cope, such as lying in, napping, going to bed early to catch up and worrying in bed, then keep poor sleep going after the stress has passed. Jacobs aims his programme at those habits and thoughts rather than at the original trigger.

MidnightHourLife takeaway

Spending less time in bed is often the quickest way to sleep more of it.

Hours spent lying awake teach the body that bed is a place to be awake. Bringing time in bed closer to the time you actually sleep makes sleep deeper and less broken, and the window then widens as sleep fills it. This is sleep scheduling, the step most people resist and the one the programme leans on hardest.

1 amHourLife takeaway

Get up at the same time every day, whatever kind of night it was.

A fixed rise time sets the body clock. Sleeping in after a bad night feels like repair, but it pushes the next night's sleepiness later and starts the cycle again. Weekends count too.

2 amHourLife takeaway

Give the bed one job, and get up when it isn't doing it.

If you are wide awake and getting frustrated, the programme says to leave the bed, do something quiet in dim light, and come back only when sleepy. Repeated over a few weeks, this rebuilds the link between bed and sleep. Behavioural sleep medicine calls it stimulus control.

3 amHourLife takeaway

Your thoughts about lost sleep can do more harm than the lost sleep itself.

Predictions like a ruined tomorrow or never sleeping again raise arousal at the very moment you need to wind down. Jacobs asks readers to catch these thoughts and answer them with more accurate ones, for example that most people get through a short night better than they expect.

4 amHourLife takeaway

You cannot force sleep. You can only set it up and step out of its way.

Trying hard to sleep is a form of effort, and effort keeps the brain alert. The programme moves the work to the daytime: a steady schedule, a calmer evening, a quieter mind. At night the job is to let go of the outcome.

5 amHourLife takeaway

A daily relaxation practice lowers the arousal that keeps you awake.

The book teaches the relaxation response, the method Herbert Benson described: sit quietly, breathe slowly, repeat a word or attend to the breath, and let passing thoughts go. Practised daily, it becomes a skill you can also use when you wake in the night.

6 amHourLife takeaway

Light, movement and temperature tell the body clock when night has come.

Daylight in the morning, exercise during the day and a cool, dark bedroom all support the body's own rhythm, while late caffeine and evening alcohol work against it. On their own these sleep hygiene steps rarely fix chronic insomnia. They help as part of the whole programme.

7 amHourLife takeaway

Sleeping pills can help for a while, but coming off them is a medical decision.

Jacobs presents the behavioural programme as a lasting alternative to pills, and a 2004 trial he led found it did better than the sleeping pill zolpidem. For readers already taking medication, the book describes cutting down slowly. Any change to a medicine should be planned with the doctor who prescribed it.

Action steps

Set up the week once. Then keep the nights steady.

Set up once

1

Keep a sleep diary for one week

Each morning, note when you went to bed, roughly how long it took to fall asleep, how long you were awake in the night, and when you got up. Estimate rather than watching the clock.

2

Choose a fixed rise time

Pick a get-up time you can keep seven days a week, including weekends. Set one alarm for it and put the alarm across the room.

3

Work out your sleep window

Divide your average time asleep by your average time in bed to get your sleep efficiency. If it is low, set your time in bed close to your average sleep, but never under five hours, and check with your doctor first if you have a medical condition or a job that needs you alert.

4

Turn the clock away

Face the bedroom clock to the wall and charge your phone out of reach. Checking the time at night feeds the worry about how much sleep is left.

5

Write your 3 a.m. card

On a small card, write the two worries that come back most at night and a calmer, more accurate reply to each. Keep it by the bed and read it instead of arguing in your head.

Every day and every week

6

Get up when you are wide awake

If you feel alert or frustrated in bed, go to another room and do something quiet in dim light, such as reading a dull book. Go back to bed only when you feel sleepy, and do the same again if needed.

7

Practise the relaxation response daily

Once a day, for 10 to 20 minutes, sit quietly, breathe slowly and repeat a calm word on each out-breath. When thoughts come, let them pass and return to the word.

8

Get morning light and move in the day

Spend some time outside soon after you get up, and exercise on most days. Keep hard workouts for earlier in the day rather than the hour before bed.

9

Review the diary each week

At the end of each week, work out your sleep efficiency again. If it is 85% or more, move your bedtime 15 minutes earlier and keep the rise time where it is.

Stop chasing sleep. Keep the hours, quiet the thoughts, and let the body do what it already knows how to do.
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Gregg D. Jacobs is an insomnia specialist and sleep researcher who developed this programme at Harvard Medical School, and Herbert Benson, known for the relaxation response, wrote the foreword. The book argues that most long-lasting insomnia is learned: a few bad nights leave behind habits and worried thoughts that keep poor sleep going long after the first cause has passed, so it can be unlearned without sleeping...

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Keep a sleep diary for one week — Each morning, note when you went to bed, roughly how long it took to fall asleep, how long you were awake in the night, and when you got up. Estimate rather than watching the clock.

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