Eye Connect
Say one whole thought to one person. Hold their eyes until you see them look back, then pause and find someone else.
Jerry Weissman✦2009✦Author of Presenting to Win
Technique, Style, and Strategy from America's Top Speaking Coach
Stop performing for the room. Talk to one person, then the next.
Take the stageAct one · the idea
Jerry Weissman, the coach behind hundreds of IPO roadshows, argues that the best presentations are person-to-person conversations rather than performances. The book is about delivery: how to use your body, voice and words so the ease you have with one person survives in front of a room, built around his ERA of Eye Connect, Reach Out and Animation.
Weissman's starting point is that almost everyone is already a good presenter across a table. The trouble starts on a stage, where adrenaline speeds you up, the eyes start roaming and the gestures shrink. His fix is to bring the one-to-one conversation with you: one thought, one person, a pause, and the next person.
Say one whole thought to one person. Hold their eyes until you see them look back, then pause and find someone else.
Move and gesture toward the person you are talking to, the way you would offer a handshake, not across the room.
Both together, scaled up for the line that matters most: more voice, more stance, more of you.
Eye Connect+Reach Out×scale=Animation
Interactive · the rehearsal room
Paste a talk and it is split into single thoughts. Roll the prompter at your pace and say it out loud. In the pause between thoughts, pick one person in the house and hold them for the whole thought. Switching mid-thought, sweeping along a row, or speaking to no one all show up on your stage map.
A thought ends at a full stop, question mark or new line. Add / with a space before it to mark a pause inside a sentence.
The house is dark until the prompter rolls.
Held one personSwitched mid-thoughtLighthouse sweepSpoke to no one
Take it to the real room
Your score, the house with every seat you spoke to, and each thought's verdict. Before a run, it shows the cue plan.
One thought per line with a pause and a seat cue after each, timed at your pace. Read it from a phone or tablet.
Fill in your opening and your Animation moment below, then print the cards, one thought each, cut along the dashes.
The Power Presenter · Jerry Weissman · Eye Connect, Reach Out, Animation
Community insights · notes from the wings
The ease you have across a table is the style to aim for in front of a room. Talk to one person at a time, and nerves have far less to grab on to.
A sweep of the room connects with no one. Speak a thought to one person, feel the click of them looking back, then move on to someone else.
Step toward one side of the room to talk to someone there, and gesture outward as if offering a handshake. It turns a speech into a conversation.
Pick the story or line you most want remembered and give it your body, voice and stance. It takes nerve, and it is what people carry out of the room.
Under pressure almost everyone rushes. A deliberate pause lets you breathe, find the next person and let the last point land.
Glance at the slide or your notes, then turn back and talk to someone. Talking to the screen hands the audience your back and your attention.
"Um" and "you know" fill the gap while you find the next words. Close your mouth and pause instead, and you look calm rather than lost.
Most people become stiff and formal the moment they present. Weissman's method works by keeping the behaviour everyone already has: talking to another person.
Action steps · call sheet
Record yourself presenting on your phone, then watch it with the sound off, looking only at where your eyes go.
Break your script into single thoughts, one per line, with a slash where you will pause and pick a new person.
Pick the one story or line that deserves your biggest movement, and rehearse it three times.
Set three chairs, objects or friends around the room, and practise holding each one for a full thought.
Write your opening line and decide which person in the room you will say it to.
Every time you speak
In every meeting this week, start each point only after your eyes have landed on someone.
Each time you catch a filler word, stop, close your mouth and let a pause carry you to the next words.
Before any talk, run it aloud at full voice at least twice; reading it silently does not count.
Talk to one person, then the next. A room is only ever a set of conversations.HourLife note after Jerry Weissman Back to the library
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Jerry Weissman, the coach behind hundreds of IPO roadshows, argues that the best presentations are person-to-person conversations rather than performances. The book is about delivery: how to use your body, voice and words so the ease you have with one person survives in front of a room, built around his ERA of Eye Connect, Reach Out and Animation.
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