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Stephen Grosswith a pediatrician and a newborn care specialist2021

The Simplest Baby Book in the World

The Illustrated, Grab-and-Do Guide for a Healthy, Happy Baby

Keep only what you will use at 2 a.m., draw it so a tired parent can see it, and leave your baby's health to your pediatrician.

  • 14chapters, from preparing for baby to staying sane
  • 3authors: a dad, a pediatrician, a newborn care specialist
  • Year 1the span it covers: baby's first year
  • 292pages, mostly pictures and short steps
Open the 2 a.m. log
A cot mobile drawn in simple shapes: a moon, a star, a cloud and a heart hanging from a bar.
HourLife's drawing, not an illustration from the book.

The core idea

Less to read. More you can do one-handed.

Stephen Gross is a brand creative executive who has worked for Disney and Mattel, and he wrote this guide as a new dad, with the pediatrician Jeremy F. Shapiro and the newborn care specialist Gabriella Terhes Karlsson. The book boils a baby's first year down to the essentials and sets them out as short, illustrated, step-by-step pages that a tired parent can take in at a glance. Its fourteen chapters run from preparing for the baby through feeding, sleep, diapers, bathing, play, safety and health, and end with finding support and staying sane. At its centre is the Simplest Baby Plan, a daily schedule for eating and sleeping, and the sleep chapter lays out several sleep training methods before the author's own approach. Quick Tips and Daddy Hacks add small workarounds for everyday problems.

The bet is that a new parent does not lack information. They have too much of it, at the wrong moment. So the book cuts each topic down to the steps you actually take, puts a picture beside them, and moves on.

It also treats the parents as part of the job. The last two chapters, Support and Staying sane, are about the adults: who can help, and how to get through the hard weeks without pretending they are easy.

  1. Only the essentials

    The basics of the first year, chosen because they come up again and again, not because they might.

  2. See it, then do it

    Illustrations and step-by-step layouts, so you can take a page in at a glance with a baby in your arms.

  3. Parents count too

    Chapters on support and staying sane, and quick workarounds, because a rested parent makes better calls.

Interactive · the 2 a.m. log

One tap per feed, sleep and diaper.

In the first weeks your pediatrician will ask when your baby last ate, how much they sleep and how many wet diapers there have been. Log it here as it happens. The clock shows the last 24 hours, and the handover note is ready to copy for a partner or the next checkup.

A notebook, not a medical tool. It does not judge whether a number is normal; your pediatrician or national health service does, and it is no substitute for their care. If your baby seems unwell or you are worried, call your pediatrician's urgent line. In an emergency, call your local emergency number now.

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    HourLife's tool, inspired by the book's focus on a simple daily plan. The book does not include this log. Entries older than two days are deleted.

    Concept anatomy

    Fourteen chapters, one first year.

    The chapters run in the order a new parent meets them: get ready, find a rhythm for eating and sleeping, handle the everyday care, keep the baby safe and well, then look after yourselves.

    1. Before baby

      1. 01Preparing for baby
    2. The daily rhythm

      1. 02The simplest baby plan
      2. 03Time to eat
      3. 04Sweet dreams, please!
      4. 05Understanding poop
    3. Everyday care

      1. 06Bathing
      2. 07Play & learn
      3. 08Baby care
      4. 09Clothing
      5. 10Out & about
    4. Safe and well

      1. 11Safety
      2. 12Health
    5. The grown-ups

      1. 13Support
      2. 14Staying sane

    Chapter titles as the book gives them. The five groups are HourLife's.

    Three voices, one plain page.

    Gross wrote the book as a parent who had just been through it. He wrote it with two specialists as co-authors, and says the material was also checked by a lactation expert and a sleep trainer.

    • The dad

      Stephen Gross

      Wrote it as a new parent, in plain words and pictures, with his Daddy Hacks.

    • The pediatrician

      Jeremy F. Shapiro, MD

      Brings the medical side: health, safety and when a question needs a doctor.

    • The newborn care specialist

      Gabriella Terhes Karlsson

      A doula and sleep trainer, who brings the hands-on side of newborn care and sleep.

    Community insights

    What parents take from it.

    1HourLife takeaway

    A new parent needs the essentials they will use at 2 a.m., not every contingency.

    Most baby books try to cover everything that could happen. This one does the opposite and keeps only the first-year basics that come up again and again. Less to read means more of it gets used.

    2HourLife takeaway

    When your hands are full, a picture beats a paragraph.

    The book leans on illustrations and step-by-step layouts, because a parent holding a baby can glance at a drawing but cannot read a dense page. Gross came to baby books from a career in visual brand work, and it shows in how each topic is laid out.

    3HourLife takeaway

    A simple daily plan takes a lot of the guesswork out of eating and sleeping.

    The Simplest Baby Plan gets its own chapter, right after preparing for the baby and before feeding and sleep. The point is a predictable shape to the day, so you are not deciding everything from scratch every hour. Your pediatrician still sets what is right for your baby.

    4HourLife takeaway

    There is more than one way to help a baby sleep, so know the options before you pick one.

    The sleep chapter summarizes several sleep training methods instead of selling just one, then sets out the author's own scheduling approach. Seeing the options side by side helps parents choose what fits their family, and talk it through with their pediatrician.

    5HourLife takeaway

    What ends up in the diaper is information, not just mess.

    Understanding poop has a chapter of its own. In the early weeks, how many wet and dirty diapers a baby has is one of the things a pediatrician asks about. A parent who notices and writes it down has better answers at the checkup.

    6HourLife takeaway

    Small hacks take the friction out of a hundred daily jobs.

    Alongside its Quick Tips, the book carries Daddy Hacks: a dad's shortcuts and workarounds for everyday baby problems. None of them is life-changing alone. Together they make the day run more smoothly.

    7HourLife takeaway

    Use a book for the basics and your pediatrician for your baby.

    Gross had the material checked by a pediatrician, a newborn care specialist, a lactation expert and a sleep trainer. Even so, a book cannot see your child. When something worries you, the call goes to the people who can.

    8HourLife takeaway

    The grown-ups need looking after too.

    The last two chapters, Support and Staying sane, are about the parents rather than the baby. A rested, supported parent makes better calls. Asking for help is part of the job, not a sign you are failing at it.

    9HourLife takeaway

    Feeling frustrated by a crying baby is normal, and saying so out loud helps.

    In interviews about the book, Gross has said he wishes people were more honest about the hard parts: lost sleep, a messy house, less freedom and strong feelings. Knowing others feel it too makes it easier to ask for a break before you need one.

    Action steps

    Set it up once, then keep it simple.

    Set up oncebefore the hard nights

    1

    Put the numbers where everyone can find them

    Save your pediatrician's office, the after-hours line and your local emergency number in every caregiver's phone. Write them on a card for the fridge too.

    2

    Ask the hard questions at the first checkup

    Ask your pediatrician how they want your baby to sleep, what temperature or symptoms should make you call, and when to go straight to the emergency room. Write the answers on the same card.

    3

    Build one grab-and-go changing station

    Put diapers, wipes, cream and a change of clothes in one basket you can carry. If you have stairs, make a second one so you are never hunting at 2 a.m.

    4

    Sketch a simple daily rhythm

    On one page, write a rough shape for the day: feeds, naps, bedtime and who covers the night. Treat it as a draft, and check feeding amounts and timing with your pediatrician.

    5

    Name three people you can call

    Write down three people who could hold the baby for an hour so you can sleep or shower, and ask each of them this week. Add a parent support line for your area to the list.

    Keep doingday after day

    6

    Log feeds, sleeps and diapers

    For the first weeks, jot down each feed, sleep and diaper with the time. Take the log to checkups so you can answer questions with facts instead of guesses.

    7

    Hand over at every shift change

    When one parent takes over from another, spend one minute on the last feed, the last diaper, the last sleep and anything odd. Then the person going off duty can actually rest.

    8

    Read one stage ahead

    Before a new stage starts, such as solids or the first trip out, read that section and write down what to ask your pediatrician at the next visit.

    9

    Take a safe break when the crying gets to you

    If you feel overwhelmed, put the baby down on their back in the crib, step into another room and breathe for a few minutes. Call someone on your list to take over if you can.

    You don't need to know everything about babies. You need the next simple step, and someone to call.
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    Stephen Gross is a brand creative executive who has worked for Disney and Mattel, and he wrote this guide as a new dad, with the pediatrician Jeremy F. Shapiro and the newborn care specialist Gabriella Terhes Karlsson. The book boils a baby's first year down to the essentials and sets them out as short, illustrated, step-by-step pages that a tired parent can take in at a glance. Its fourteen chapters run from...

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    HourLife’s key takeaways include: A new parent needs the essentials they will use at 2 a.m., not every contingency. When your hands are full, a picture beats a paragraph. A simple daily plan takes a lot of the guesswork out of eating and sleeping.

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    What's one thing I can do after reading The Simplest Baby Book in the World: The Illustrated, Grab-and-Do Guide for a Healthy, Happy Baby?

    Put the numbers where everyone can find them — Save your pediatrician's office, the after-hours line and your local emergency number in every caregiver's phone. Write them on a card for the fridge too.

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