Acknowledge feelings before asking for better behavior.
The fastest path out of a power struggle is often naming the emotion your child cannot yet organize.
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Joanna Faber
The most-loved lines from Joanna Faber, drawn from 1 book in the library.
Lines labelled “HourLife takeaway” are our wording of the book’s ideas and may paraphrase it. Only lines in quotation marks are the author’s own words, with where they appear. Check the book for exact wording before you quote it. Spot an error?
Play is not a distraction from parenting. For little kids, play is the language of cooperation.
Silly voices, races, and pretend worlds are practical tools because they meet young children where their brains already are.
Give choices when you can so limits are easier to accept when you must.
Two acceptable options preserve the adult boundary while giving the child a real sense of agency.
Fantasy can honor a wish without granting it.
Saying what your child wishes could happen often softens the grief of hearing no.
Problem-solving starts earlier than most adults think.
Even preschoolers can help invent solutions when the adult frames the issue as our problem instead of your misbehavior.
Repair matters more than perfect calm.
The book gives parents permission to return, reconnect, and model what accountability sounds like after a hard moment.
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