The most-loved lines from Jules Evans, drawn from 1 book in the library.
We are disturbed less by events than by the beliefs we hold about them.
This Stoic idea, taken from Epictetus, is the root of cognitive therapy: Albert Ellis and Aaron Beck both credited the Stoics. If a belief is driving the distress, you can examine it and change it, which is a lot more within reach than changing the world.
Separate what is up to you from what is not, and spend yourself only on the first.
Epictetus, a former slave, taught that our judgements, choices and efforts are ours, while reputation, health and other people's actions are not. Sorting a worry into those two columns is the fastest way to find the part you can act on.
Philosophy is fieldwork: an idea only counts once you have practised it under pressure.
Musonius Rufus treated virtue like a skill to be trained, with deliberate exercises in hardship and restraint. Pick one principle and rehearse it in a real situation this week, rather than agreeing with it in theory.
Expect the setback in advance and it loses much of its power.
Seneca rehearsed losses and reversals ahead of time so that they would not ambush him. Imagining what could go wrong today is not pessimism; it is preparation that leaves you calmer when it happens.
Most of what makes life pleasant is simple, and it is already here.
Epicurus ran his school in a garden and prized friendship, freedom from fear, and plain pleasures noticed fully. Savouring what is in front of you is a skill, and like the others it improves with practice.
Seen from far enough away, today’s crisis shrinks to its true size.
The cosmic perspective that runs from Heraclitus to the Stoics places a single bad day inside the flow of everything. When you feel crushed, zoom out to the city, the century and the stars, then come back.
Repeat your best maxims until they arrive by themselves when you need them.
Pythagoras and his followers memorised sayings and repeated them like incantations. A short line learnt by heart is there in a crisis when a long argument is not.
Question your beliefs out loud, with other people.
Socrates did philosophy in the street, by asking what people meant and whether their reasons held. A friend who will cross-examine you kindly is one of the best tools for living you can find.
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