Resistance is a sizing signal.
When you cannot start, the next action is probably too large for the nervous system today.
7 memorable lines from One Small Step Can Change Your Life by Robert Maurer, each with the idea behind it.
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Resistance is a sizing signal.
When you cannot start, the next action is probably too large for the nervous system today.
Small questions recruit attention gently.
A tiny repeated question can open problem-solving without triggering the threat response.
Tiny actions make identity believable.
A two-minute version creates proof that the new behavior belongs in your day.
Rewards should be small enough to stay clean.
A moment of acknowledgment can reinforce progress without turning change into bargaining.
Consistency beats emotional intensity.
Kaizen favors steps that can happen on ordinary days, not only motivated days.
Fear shrinks when the demand shrinks.
The brain tolerates change better when the first move feels almost too easy to count.
Improvement compounds through contact.
Each small repetition reduces unfamiliarity and makes the next repetition cheaper.
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