The body keeps score of the yes you gave while your whole system wanted no.
Maté's recurring warning is that self-silencing has physiological consequences.
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When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress
5 memorable lines from When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress by Gabor Maté, each with the idea behind it.
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Lines labelled “HourLife takeaway” are our wording of the book’s ideas and may paraphrase it. Only lines in quotation marks are the author’s own words, with where they appear. Check the book for exact wording before you quote it. Spot an error?
Stress is not only what happens to you. It is also what you cannot express or resolve.
The useful lens is chronic mismatch: load without agency, emotion without outlet.
Boundaries are biological, not merely interpersonal.
A boundary protects energy, immune load, attention, and recovery time.
Compassion matters because blame adds another stressor.
The book can be read as an invitation to listen, not as a verdict on illness.
Health begins with noticing the signal earlier.
The smallest practice is detecting tension before it has to become a crisis.
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