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When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times

5 memorable lines from When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times by Pema Chodron, each with the idea behind it.

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Lines labelled “HourLife takeaway” are our wording of the book’s ideas and may paraphrase it. Only lines in quotation marks are the author’s own words, with where they appear. Check the book for exact wording before you quote it. Spot an error?

Groundlessness is part of being alive.

When Things Fall Apart Pema Chodron HourLife takeaway

The unstable moment is not proof of failure; it is one of the central conditions practice must meet.

Staying is the first discipline.

When Things Fall Apart Pema Chodron HourLife takeaway

Before fixing or fleeing, the practice is to remain present with what is here.

Softness can be braver than armor.

When Things Fall Apart Pema Chodron HourLife takeaway

Gentleness interrupts the habit of turning pain into aggression.

Pain can widen compassion.

When Things Fall Apart Pema Chodron HourLife takeaway

Personal difficulty becomes less isolating when it connects you to the suffering of others.

The storyline is not the whole moment.

When Things Fall Apart Pema Chodron HourLife takeaway

Loosening the narrative creates room for breath, choice, and tenderness.

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