Self-respect is attractive because it is stable
The useful core is not manipulation; it is refusing to negotiate away dignity.
5 memorable lines from Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov, each with the idea behind it.
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Self-respect is attractive because it is stable
The useful core is not manipulation; it is refusing to negotiate away dignity.
Over-giving hides a contract
When giving is secretly a bid for security, resentment follows.
Directness filters confusion
A clear request reveals more than prolonged guessing.
A short no is often stronger
Over-explaining can invite debate where a boundary should stand.
Reciprocity is information
Watch whether care returns without you managing the entire exchange.
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