Sherry Argov

“Self-respect is attractive because it is stable”

The useful core is not manipulation; it is refusing to negotiate away dignity.

“Over-giving hides a contract”

When giving is secretly a bid for security, resentment follows.

“Directness filters confusion”

A clear request reveals more than prolonged guessing.

“A short no is often stronger”

Over-explaining can invite debate where a boundary should stand.

“Reciprocity is information”

Watch whether care returns without you managing the entire exchange.