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the first thirty seconds, under pressure

The hard openings are the ones where your heart is already racing: the big room, the pitch, the toast. Trying to calm down rarely works in the minute you have. What you can do is memorise one line, rehearse it against a clock until it survives the adrenaline, and give the racing heart a name that points forward.

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  • One line, rehearsed
one racing heart, two names for it
The same racing heart before an opening, called nerves or called excitement A fast pulse trace splits into two cards. Call it nerves, by saying I'm so nervous, and the speaker keeps their eyes on the notes, rushes the line and shrinks the point. Call it excitement, by saying I'm excited, and the speaker looks up, says the line and lands the point. the same racing heart, a minute before Call it nerves “I'm so nervous.” eyes on the notes rush the line shrink the point Call it excitement “I'm excited.” look up say the line land the point

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The method

Rehearse the line, not the talk.

  1. Write the first line word for word

    One or two sentences, with the point in them. It is the only part of the talk you memorise.

  2. Say it aloud against a clock

    Standing up, at the speed you'd use in the room. Adrenaline speeds you up, so a line that only just fits will not.

  3. Name the feeling forward

    Just before you start, say “I'm excited”, out loud or under your breath. Not “I'm calm”: you won't be.

  4. Look up and land it on one face

    Find one person, say the line to them, then turn to the slides. The notes can wait one sentence.

  5. Debrief every run

    Was the point in the first sentence? Did you look up? Did you rush? Change one thing and run it again.

    Line, clock, name it, land it, debrief.

Example: A founder has ninety seconds with an investor panel. The line is “Every week your team loses a day to status meetings, and we give it back.” They say it to the clock eight times the night before, and once more in the corridor, after “I'm excited.”

Thirty-second rehearsal

Run the line against the clock.

1 · Your first line

2 · The run

Ready when you are

Press start, then say your line out loud. Press “Said it” the moment you finish.

0.0 s30 s

3 · Debrief

Do a run first.

Your runs

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The research behind it

“I'm excited” beat “I'm calm”.

Alison Wood Brooks, at Harvard Business School, asked people about to do something stressful to say one sentence first. In one study, 140 people preparing a persuasive public speech said either “I am excited” or “I am calm”. Those who said they were excited gave longer speeches, and were rated more persuasive, more competent and more relaxed.

In a timed maths test with 188 people, the excited group scored 8% higher on average than the calm group and a group who said nothing. And in a karaoke study with 113 people, each singer was scored on pitch, rhythm and volume: the chart shows how each statement did.

Her reading is that anxiety and excitement are both states of high arousal, so moving from one to the other is easier than trying to calm down. A single sentence is not a cure for stage fright, and these were lab tasks; it is a cheap thing to try in the minute before your opening.

Karaoke accuracy by what people said first: excited 80 percent, calm, angry or sad 69 percent, anxious 53 percent karaoke accuracy score, % 80% Said “I'm excited” 69% Said calm, angry or sad 53% Said “I'm anxious”
Brooks, Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, 2014. Averages as reported in the American Psychological Association's press release; the paper reports more measures.

The idea

Why it works.

The first thirty seconds are when the adrenaline peaks and when the room decides whether to listen. That is the worst moment to improvise, so you don't: the line is already in your mouth, and it has survived the clock a dozen times.

Naming the feeling as excitement doesn't ask your body to do the impossible. It keeps the energy and points it at the people in front of you rather than at the exit.

When it goes wrong

Habits that help.

  • Memorise one line, not the talk. A memorised talk breaks at the first interruption. A memorised opening carries you into the part you know well.
  • Rehearse where it's hard. Standing, out loud, with someone in the room if you can. A line that works in your head often doesn't in your mouth.
  • Don't tell yourself to calm down. In the studies above, “I'm calm” did worse than “I'm excited”. Keep the energy and aim it.
  • Silence before the line is fine. Walk on, find a face, breathe, then speak. The pause feels long to you and short to them.

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