An opening needs context, intent, and a key message.
Fenning’s framing approach helps the listener understand the subject, the purpose of the conversation, and its main point before supporting detail arrives.
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A topic does not tell the listener what you want from them.
Distinguish an update from a request for help, a decision, or a discussion. State the intended outcome so the other person knows how to participate.
The key message belongs near the beginning.
Choose the point the listener needs to grasp first. Put it in the opening instead of making the listener reconstruct it from a sequence of background events.
Goal, problem, and solution can organize a short summary.
Fenning’s GPS structure describes the intended outcome, what is getting in its way, and the proposed way forward. Use it to make an issue easier to follow.
Relevant detail depends on what the listener needs to understand.
Before adding background, ask what it contributes to the decision or discussion. Keep information available for follow-up without putting every step of the history into the opening.
A prepared opening still needs a willing, available listener.
Check whether the other person can give the conversation attention. A clear message is easier to use when the listener has the time and context to respond.
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