Problems

I keep overspending.

Overspending

Overspending often starts before checkout. Find the trigger, add one pause, and create a spending rule that protects what you actually want.

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Time to start

10 minutes

First step

Find the trigger

Do this first

Write the last three overspends and what you were feeling right before each one.

Choose what to do next

Start here

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Weekly Planner

Plan known spending before the week starts making choices for you.

Reading shortlist

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Your Money or Your Life

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One week of action

7-day action sequence

  1. 1

    Find the trigger

    Write the last three overspends and what you were feeling right before each one.

  2. 2

    Name the category

    Circle the one spending category that creates the most regret.

  3. 3

    Add a pause rule

    Create a 24-hour wait for one type of nonessential purchase.

  4. 4

    Choose a replacement

    Pick one free or already-paid way to meet the same emotional need.

  5. 5

    Make the cost visible

    Translate one recurring purchase into monthly cost and hours of work.

  6. 6

    Pre-decide the limit

    Set one realistic amount for the category before the next temptation window.

  7. 7

    Keep the kind rule

    Write the spending rule that reduces regret without turning money into punishment.

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