Thomas Erikson
The most-loved lines from Thomas Erikson, drawn from 1 book in the library.
“Style is not character”
A preference for a quick answer, a conversation, a predictable next step, or supporting detail tells you something about delivery. It does not tell you what a person is worth.
“Let the colors start a question”
Erikson’s categories are a shorthand. Ask what the person needs in this situation instead of treating a color as a permanent explanation.
“The same facts can use a different opening”
Keep the request, deadline, and constraints intact. Change the order and amount of context so the other person can find what they need to respond.
“Listen for the missing information”
A request for more detail or a faster answer is useful feedback about the message. Check what is missing before repeating the same explanation more loudly.
“Curiosity gives you another move”
When a conversation becomes frustrating, ask about the other person’s preference. You may find a practical adjustment in pace, context, or detail.
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