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Thomas Erikson

The most-loved lines from Thomas Erikson, drawn from 1 book in the library.

“Style is not character”

A preference for a quick answer, a conversation, a predictable next step, or supporting detail tells you something about delivery. It does not tell you what a person is worth.

— Surrounded by Idiots
“Let the colors start a question”

Erikson’s categories are a shorthand. Ask what the person needs in this situation instead of treating a color as a permanent explanation.

— Surrounded by Idiots
“The same facts can use a different opening”

Keep the request, deadline, and constraints intact. Change the order and amount of context so the other person can find what they need to respond.

— Surrounded by Idiots
“Listen for the missing information”

A request for more detail or a faster answer is useful feedback about the message. Check what is missing before repeating the same explanation more loudly.

— Surrounded by Idiots
“Curiosity gives you another move”

When a conversation becomes frustrating, ask about the other person’s preference. You may find a practical adjustment in pace, context, or detail.

— Surrounded by Idiots

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